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Swinger Lifestyle 101 – Swinger Etiquette Rules To Live By

We all want to have fun with the people we meet, and the best way to achieve this is by adhering to good old-fashioned manners. Here are some swinger etiquette rules to live by to be sure you have the best time possible:

  • The Golden Rule: “NO Means NO”. Anyone may say “NO” for any reason at any time, even if you are in the middle of a swinging encounter and have changed your mind and want to stop it right there. If you are in a situation that makes you uncomfortable, just say “NO”. Do not jeopardize your happiness and satisfaction with this lifestyle, or that of your partner by doing something against your will, just because you are afraid to say no. The friendliest way to say it is, “Oh no thank you, but thanks for asking”. Be honest initially, and you will avoid any misunderstandings. Don’t forget that people’s attitudes change, and maybe sometime in the future you may meet again with a different opinion.
  • Always treat one another with respect. After all, this is a party! Besides, you do not want to be rude or judgmental, because you would not want it to happen to you. If a single gentleman talks to you and you are interested in swinging with couples only, that doesn’t mean you can’t be nice to him. He’s a person just like you, so just politely let him know.
  • Do NOT take personal offense if you are rejected (and it happens to everyone, including women). Rejection is a very personal thing, and it’s almost as hard to reject as it is to be rejected. Being honest with each other is crucial, and who knows? You could end up with a great friendship if you handle the situation right.
  • Deal with jealousy head on! It is a normal reaction. Remember that this is strictly a physical and recreational pleasure, not an emotional one. Discover what triggers jealousy in your relationship and work it out together. It may mean modifying your activities, but your relationship together is not worth jeopardizing over swinging.
  • Always let your partner know she/he is number one. Arrive together and leave together. Take time to caress your partner and touch base often to help him/her feel secure.
  • Be kind, thoughtful, and sensitive. Use your common sense and good judgment when you are involved in a swinging situation. All swingers, including single males and females have feelings!
  • Honor any and all prior understandings & rules you have made between each other, and be sure to COMMUNICATE with each other openly and honestly so there are no misunderstandings about your rules.
  • Respect the guidelines you set as a couple and communicate them to prospective partners. Open and honest communication is imperative to forming relationships. Don’t forget to respect the guidelines of others, and don’t try to talk them into changing the rules because you don’t happen to agree with them!
  • Pay attention to body language. There is more to interaction than words. Consider the body language of the person you are talking with, and it might tell you more than the conversation you are having! Be sensitive to the person and you will know what makes them uncomfortable or happy and excited.
  • Demand absolute discretion and be worthy of the same. Discretion is paramount in this lifestyle and privacy is imperative! Never, ever discuss details inappropriately. Everything you do, everything you see, MUST remain private. There is a saying, “Everything you see here, and everything you hear here must remain here when you leave.”
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