If you want to know how to get women in bed, it’s all about telling her what she wants to hear. Experienced pick up artists use “sexual frames.” These are statements about three topics – you, her and “us”- that you tell her, and they set the stage for intimacy. They start off innocent, like any type of conversation people use when they’re first getting to know each other; and gradually they progress to the point where you’re talking about sexually intimate things. Then, it’s just a matter of making one tiny step to get her into the bedroom.
There are 4 great devices that work very well for sexual framing:
Stories. Stories are used to tell a girl more about you, to share sexual experiences, to talk about friends, or to give her a metaphor. The point is that they demonstrate characteristics about you, her or the two of you together.
Compliments. Compliments work great for talking about her. Instead of complimenting her on things she IS, you’re going to compliment her on things she WANTS to be complimented on. This is the key to sexual framing – talking straight to her desires and wishes.
Bait, Hook, Reel, Release Rapports. This is a technique where you “go fishing” for a little information about her in order to follow it up with a compliment. Because you now have some insight on how she feels about herself, you can fashion that compliment so that it’s exactly what she wants to hear. If she’s taken aback, you “release” with a non sequitur to get things off track. Then, you follow it up by telling her something similar about yourself which establishes rapport.
Double Binds. A double bind is a question that, no matter how she answers, qualifies her so that you can start building your frames. For example, asking her if she’s a party girl; if she says yes, tell her you like to go out too; if she says no, tell her you like staying at home and watching DVDs too. Then, you use this angle to set the rest of your frames.
How to get women in bed is simple if you know how to build frames and escalate them gradually. It’s all about making the right statements, shaping her behavior and using tension and release to get her where you want her – at your place, in your bed, waiting for you.